July 4, 2010
Anonymous asked: I live in southern california, suburb area, but i am mostly in woodland hills calalbasas, or west la just to keep myself busy idk i mean I feel like i just wasted 4 years of my life.. and its not like i dont try.. idk I guess ppl just are content already with their friends and dont want to make new ones
what do u suggest.. to be more ‘approachable’ or how do make some..’
sorry for the rant.
A: What did you waste those 4 years doing? smoking pot? dating one person and being co-dependant? I’d say, give people a reason to be your friend without saying a word! wear a funny hat! But seriously I think you just have to be more visible and involved, wake up early, get a coffee talk to everybody that you make eye contact with? LOVE YOURSELF first and foremost at the end of the day the problem is in what’s between your ears. Change your behavior to change your thinking. Don’t dwell on time wasted. Pity parties are for sad vampires in castles built of irony. you can do it!!!!
—Charlie @takeyourfaceoff.tumblr.com